I hope and pray that someday I will be blessed to marry a woman who will bear us a daughter who will in turn resemble fraction of you. I have heard of angels, but I have never seen them smile, walk or talk. I just know you Elf.nesh, the definition of humility, with a heart that of an innocent child. The closer I am to you, the joyous I am on this Earth. Your caressing fingertips reinvigorate life; your presence conquers the peace, you live love not in words but in silence.
Your beaming pupils emit grace & dignity with care and affection /
Your faith inscribed between those perfectly patterned wrinkles /
Your joy in abundance, always over flowing, smiles reflected from your infectious enamel teeth to gift it to the starving world /
Your love, your love is an addictive warm sensation of an oasis reservoir that flows through your calluses hands.
እልፍነሽ
የንጋቱን ፀዳል ቀድሞ - ኑሮ ሲፋለመኝ
የማይነጠቅ ነጥቆ - ራቆቴን ሲለቀኝ
ብሌኖችሽን ሳይ - ጨለማው ጭልጥ አለ
ጥርሶችሽን ስመለከት - ፈገግታ ተረገዘ ፤ ሳቅም ገነፈለ
ትንፋስሽን ሳዳምጥ - ነገን ኣስተማረኝ
ጣቶችሽ ሲዳብሱኝ - ሂወት ዘሩልኝ
እልፍነሽ - እልፍፍፍፍፍ-ነሽ!
የደስታዬን ተካፋይ - የፍቅር ፏፏቴ
ቀና ብለሽ እስክታዪኝ -ይሄው አደግኩልሽ
ፍቅርን ያስተማርሽኝ - ኣብሮ ኣደግ ፤ ሁለተኛ እናቴ።
እወ ዓብየልኪ
ወዮ ዕሸል ነይረ - ግርም ሎሚ ነዊሐኪ
ዓይኒ ዓይነይ - ብፍሽኽታ ኣንቃዕሪርኪ
የመና ደኒቁኪ - መስኖይ ተሓጒስኪ
ወዮ ዕሸል ነይረ - ድጋም ኢለ ግማሽ
በፂሐዮ ጣይታ - ብሩኽ ኢድ እልፍነሽ
ክንዲ ኣደይ ክንዲ ሓፍተይ
ክንዲ ኹሉ ዓባዬይ ማሓዛይ።
- Daniel
Dec 30, 2013
Dec 22, 2013
5 Small Steps to be Happy
When New Year comes
around, I try to choose few words which I want to make my new year resolution;
however rather than waiting to start those on new years day, it is even better
if you can make them your habit by then.
For this year, Happiness is on top of my list, and so I thought, doing Shawn Anchor's 5
Ways to Turn Happiness Into An Advantage was a perfect
opportunity. I recruited a friend to do this small challenge with me. We will
do our own things, but having a motivator is always helpful (going forward if
it is not private and if it is worth sharing I will blog about it, otherwise, I
will be keeping it on my note pad for the next 21 days).
Click the links above to
learn in details how it works, but here is the short explanation of how it
works.
1. Everyday, we are to
write 3 things that we are grateful for.
2. Journal one positive
experience that we had with in the past 24 hours (spend writing at least 2
minutes.
3. One act of kindnesa
4. At least 10 minutes of
exercise and
5. 2 minutes of
meditation.
So here it begins. The 3 things that I am grateful for today
are:
1. I woke up and when I thought of my act of kindness, it
made me happy. Because it was a great reminder on how wonderful some people are
and how their influence on you grows over time.
2. I walked outside and during this winter season, the
weather was so amazingly nice that, I decided to change and go running through
the woods for a while.
3. I was interpreting for about an hour and half this
morning and, interpretation is one of those things that allow you to experience
what Roman Krznaric calls, The Power Empathy a way to place yourself in the shoe of others and attempt to
see the word through their eyes, because when you are interpreting you are
trying to explain things as accurately as you can of what is being said
regardless of what you know and what you think. It gives you a sense of how
others process information in their head.
JOURNAL: I work for an organization that saves lives. Literally. And I think my job is so rewarding. Extremely
diverse office, if you walk into our office, I bet if you care to count, in one
day you probably can count over 30 languages. Amongst many one of things I do
is, I sit with clients and I ask them their short and long term goals. Some
people have never thought about their long-term goals in the sense that most of
us (us = most of you reading this). You can ask, what can you envision yourself
possibly doing in 5 years and some people just never considered that thought?
They feel intimidate to even suggest that they can rise up to some of their
desires. This makes me feel so privileged for the fact that I have this sense
of feeling and confidence I can be what ever I want to be. Not everyone feels that
way. When I push them further and try to get a sense of what they are fond
of…they say well it would be nice to be….a nurse (just an exa.) and let go a
light hearted smile that just glows on their face when they imagine about it.
Every time I get to see that from a client it inspires me, reminds me of my
privileged, and makes me feel humble.
While I am at it, I thought I share, my office is doing this
fundraising which you can find here and we are only $1K short of our goal, feel appreciated to drop in your
blessings.
Be happy and success will follow.
Cheers,
Daniel
Dec 16, 2013
Your First Instinct (‘Go With Your Guts’)
Go with your guts they say, for a reason. Your instincts (snap judgment) is a decision that the brain makes in a such a quick glance of reflection yet it is the summary of all the information it has gathered up to date in its entire life. Yes, it could be hard to explain in words but the brain knows more than it is able to explain why it feels certain way. If you allow it and follow your instinct, more than not you will be happy you did.
Cheers,
Dani
Mandela, a Symbol of Human Strength
As NelsonMandela one of the
world’s iconic human beings is laid to rest. “So what was it that allowed Mandela to
miraculously unite a nation?” There are so much lessons that we have learned
from him over the years and hope that we continue to learn from him. Ever since
his death, forgiveness, Freedom, and Peace have been some of the few words
repeated over and over again by world leaders and ordinary citizens across the
glob when describing him. Although some of us might never have the strength, we
should always aspire to do better than yesterday and practice the lessons that
we are fortunate enough to have learned from such human beings alike. On this
beautiful Sunday, I personally want to focus on one theme. FORGIVENESS. I feel
I owe him so much gratitude for showing us the strength of human determination
for one’s true values and for showing us what is possible.
In forgiving, you free the inner self from harboring unpleasant feelings, increasing the space for a lighter colors; more reasons for positive energy and for laughter and joy to over take. You focus on deeds that are worthwhile, invest your energy on things that you can be proud of, and claim the result, as results of my effort loudly and publicly. There is no shame in forgiving, but of strength and the opportunity for joy to spread like new cells and for love to bloom.
I recommend you to read this article by: Johann Lochner, an Apartheid-era Cop during the height of the struggle who looks back on Mandela's Forgiveness. Mr. Lochner now lives and works in Dallas, Texas. Here are some wonderful excerpts from the article but the full article can be accessed via the links below.
In forgiving, you free the inner self from harboring unpleasant feelings, increasing the space for a lighter colors; more reasons for positive energy and for laughter and joy to over take. You focus on deeds that are worthwhile, invest your energy on things that you can be proud of, and claim the result, as results of my effort loudly and publicly. There is no shame in forgiving, but of strength and the opportunity for joy to spread like new cells and for love to bloom.
I recommend you to read this article by: Johann Lochner, an Apartheid-era Cop during the height of the struggle who looks back on Mandela's Forgiveness. Mr. Lochner now lives and works in Dallas, Texas. Here are some wonderful excerpts from the article but the full article can be accessed via the links below.
“So what was
it that allowed Mandela to miraculously unite a nation?
Mandela
forgave the Afrikaners.
Forgiveness.
Yes that same forgiveness Jesus expressed when he cried out to his Father while
hanging on a cross: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they
do." Forgiveness removed the shackles of hate, and Mandela knew that
mutual forgiveness was the key to national reconciliation.
Forgiveness
freed Madiba, and forgiveness freed his country. Mandela chose
a symbol of hate and turned it into a symbol of hope. As seen in the movie
"Invictus," Mandela insisted on forgiveness as the key to uniting his
beloved country"
Rest In Peace Madiba!
Blessed Sunday All.
Just another inspired youngster - Daniel
Dec 11, 2013
Tigrinya Eritreans & Tegaru Ethiopians are off the same people
facebook group that stated ‘Agame, Adwa
and Tembien* used to work in Eritrea like slaves and they speak Eritrean
Tigrigna so they think they speak the right Tigrigna’. This was as accurately
as I could remember it. It is not verbatim as the comment was deleted soon
after it was posted. It was obvious that some people were offended by it. The
person making the comment seems to be expressing that people from the names
mentioned above have the attitude/belief that their dialect is the right
dialect of Tigrigna. However he seems to disagree and states that, these
mentioned above are in fact using an Eritrean dialect. So I thought this is a
great opportunity to say something I always felt. When it comes to the
relationship between Eritrea and Tigray, sometimes I feel like some members of
our community (whether if that be our family or friends) have lack of
understanding on some of the basic simple facts…
Fact #1. The Tigrigna speaking Eritreans aka Tigrinya (as they
are referred in Eritrea) and the Tigrigna speaking Ethiopians aka Tegaru come
from the same Semitic family tree, along the likes of Amharic and Tigre
speaking ethnics. Of course over time it is inevitable that groups could grow
apart and even develop distinct difference in their culture and language as
well as other beliefs. This is true anywhere in the world. That is why we have
so many different ethnic groups, languages and religions (belief) all around the
world. Otherwise no matter if you believe in creation or evolution there weren’t
that many different groups at the beginning right? Distance and lack of
connectivity creates people to adopt and foster their own ways of life. Which are
both a blessing and a curse at the same time. It is a blessing, because it
allows people to have new perspective on things and choices. It is a curse
because this simple fact could be source of problems between the different
groups due to the lack of understanding and the gap of information between
them.
So one is neither superior nor inferior to the other, the
Eritreans and Tegaru along with their similarities and difference are just the same
family tree that could and might have grown to show a very very small signs of
difference between them here and there, this can be attributed to distance and
time in isolation from one another.
Fact #2. Geography and connectivity has a huge influence on
the spread of culture, language and religion or anything of that sort. Hence,
if the Tegaru residents of the Tigray region closer to the borders speak much
more similar Tigrigna dialect with their Tigrigna speaking Eritreans residing
across the boarder, this should be expected than the dialects of Tigrigna
speaking Ethiopians who live farther away. Why? Because humans interact with
other humans that reside in their close approximately, and their interactions
are not limited to buying and selling goods and services, but also borrowing
and lending culture, language, faith and other intangible fundamental things.
Therefore, it means the bond will remain fairly in tact. If one wants to argue
that, the relationship/bond was a a by product of Tegaru crossing to Eritrea
for economic reasons or the Eritreans crossing to Tigray, Ethiopia for economic
or other reasons, that is the natural flow of people across the glob. If our people
crossed the boarder for employment or trade reasons, that should not be a thing
to be ashamed of. It means people went seeking after their interests what ever
that is. Aren’t Ethiopians coming to America or Europe for one reason or
another? If there is one thing that we should learn from the Western countries
is the respect for work in a pursuit to better one’s life. That brings me to my last fact.
Fact #3. When Ethiopian and Eritreans used to cross the
boarders seeking for employment purpose, they were travelling with in their own
country, remember we were just one country Ethiopia, Eritrea as a state with in
Ethiopia, therefore people moving around with in their own boarder for
different opportunities is just a normal thing to do. To those who consider
that as a sign of superiority, pride, disdain or shame, please trust me when I
say that is just a sign of your ignorance reconsider your belief.
What should concern us is, for our people Ethiopians and
Eritreans not being able to cross each other’s boarder. In time when the world
is becoming a small village by the day with new treaties, it is being separated
that should alarm us from our neighbors not having a history of connectivity
and close relationship. Often times, I notice, Tegaru Ethiopians being offended
to hear an Eritrean/s stating or implying that people from “Agame” or “Tigray”
used to go to Eritrea for employment opportunities. So what?
Obama during his speech at
Nelson Mandela memorial services today said, something so beautiful, there are
too many of us Obama echoed, “…there are too many of us, too many of us on the
sidelines, comfortable in complacency or cynicism when our voices must be
heard.” When we see our fellow family and friends either being offended or
attempting to offend with such things, things that are not even offensive
things to begin with, we should discuss our differences and explain what we
think. We all have our moments when our ignorance gets the best of us, we
should jump on the opportunity to discuss and by that educate one another not
dismiss it and leave it covered. Because covering it is not a solution,
addressing it is. You can’t solve ignorance and the lack of knowledge by
burying it, its cure is exposing it to light by that I mean to the process of
learning.
*Agame, Adwa and Tembien (local names in Tigray Region of
Ethiopia who speak Tigrigna)
Cheers,
Daniel
Dec 6, 2013
Nelson Mandela’s Legacy
What makes President Nelson Mandela’s a legend? So so so many things; but I think President Mandela’s achievement is his decision to retire after one presidential term. He returned the power to the masses when he could have easily continued being in power. This I think was the real turning point for South Africa’s democratic culture and the legacy he lives behind as a selfless public servant who cared so much. Perhaps a lesson takes from what made USA the country that it is today. I believe that, General George Washington’s decision to return his commission to the Continental Congress after the battle in 1783 was a monumental point in the history of the USA. I wonder if America could have been the America we know it today had George Washington decided to try to remain as commander-in-chief rather than resigning his power.
Some are just born to leave a legacy for centuries to inspire children and adults alike. Some belong for
history books, their deeds live on…
Here is a short video about the life of Nelson Mandela from Al Jazeera and a good read by Matthew Fisher titled 'One of Nelson Mandela’s greatest achievements was winning battle against odious pass laws'
"I dream of an Africa which is in peace with itself". Amen Madiba and may your soul rest in peace. -Daniel
Nov 18, 2013
Ethiopian Walias and Wedi Tikabo
Ethiopia's dream to qualify for World Cup 2014 in Brazil came to an end last night with the loss of 2:0
to Nigeria. I am genuinely pleased to read so many peoples status who say, they are so proud of our Antelopes (our Walia's) accomplishments and they are still happy. Well I wish I could say the same
I believed this was a perfect storm for all Ethiopians to cheerfully celebrate together, a reason to unite with pride, an opportunity for Ethiopia to display its beauty on a world stage, bring something cheerful news in a weeks of terrible news to Ethiopians, another chance for the world media to cover Ethiopia on a positive note and indirectly promote a wave of investment and tourism. I wanted to see us qualify so bad that my expectations might have been too high, perhaps I was overly ambitious. Because, I have been arguing with people why the Walia's can win in Nigeria albeit the challenges. My expectation was based on how good the Walia's played against Nigeria about a month ago on their first leg match in Addis Ababa. Unfortunately yesterday, that team seemed to show up on the 68th minute. They played great for about 15 minutes from there on (we lost the connection and can't say how they played for the rest 8 or so minutes after that...)
There was so much disappointment and hopelessness on a lot of our faces. This morning, I was walking around Addis in the sub-city locally known as Haya hulet (22) and I saw this boy pictured here who seemed to be riding his thoughts, I said to him "hi Walia, Selam new?" (hi Walia how are you?) I said Walia because he was wearing his Walia Jersay. To my amazement he was unfazed with my effort to get his attention; he glanced at me as to only say I heard you but, I am not interested. I felt a sense of respect for his peace & even intimidated to try to engage him again. I felt he was an adult in his own word in a child's body.
I passed him by, then I walked back to snap two pictures with out saying anything. To me he seemed to be drowned with deep thoughts of mixed feelings of disappointment and long term solution. The expression on his face I thought was a shared sentiment with my own feelings inside. My interpretation might be just a reflection of what was on my mind, but when I looked at these two pictures multiple times during the day, one phrase comes to mind "eske-meche?" (for how long?) how long do we continue to be satisfied with efforts. When do we raise the expectation & be satisfied not with efforts but rather results. We are not less than anyone else and we should learn to take disappointment with a loss. To be frank I feel sick of waiting and hoping for next time. Let the light shine on Ethiopian today, tomorrow & all the days to follow as it makes its way back to her glorious days.
to Nigeria. I am genuinely pleased to read so many peoples status who say, they are so proud of our Antelopes (our Walia's) accomplishments and they are still happy. Well I wish I could say the same
I believed this was a perfect storm for all Ethiopians to cheerfully celebrate together, a reason to unite with pride, an opportunity for Ethiopia to display its beauty on a world stage, bring something cheerful news in a weeks of terrible news to Ethiopians, another chance for the world media to cover Ethiopia on a positive note and indirectly promote a wave of investment and tourism. I wanted to see us qualify so bad that my expectations might have been too high, perhaps I was overly ambitious. Because, I have been arguing with people why the Walia's can win in Nigeria albeit the challenges. My expectation was based on how good the Walia's played against Nigeria about a month ago on their first leg match in Addis Ababa. Unfortunately yesterday, that team seemed to show up on the 68th minute. They played great for about 15 minutes from there on (we lost the connection and can't say how they played for the rest 8 or so minutes after that...)
There was so much disappointment and hopelessness on a lot of our faces. This morning, I was walking around Addis in the sub-city locally known as Haya hulet (22) and I saw this boy pictured here who seemed to be riding his thoughts, I said to him "hi Walia, Selam new?" (hi Walia how are you?) I said Walia because he was wearing his Walia Jersay. To my amazement he was unfazed with my effort to get his attention; he glanced at me as to only say I heard you but, I am not interested. I felt a sense of respect for his peace & even intimidated to try to engage him again. I felt he was an adult in his own word in a child's body.
I passed him by, then I walked back to snap two pictures with out saying anything. To me he seemed to be drowned with deep thoughts of mixed feelings of disappointment and long term solution. The expression on his face I thought was a shared sentiment with my own feelings inside. My interpretation might be just a reflection of what was on my mind, but when I looked at these two pictures multiple times during the day, one phrase comes to mind "eske-meche?" (for how long?) how long do we continue to be satisfied with efforts. When do we raise the expectation & be satisfied not with efforts but rather results. We are not less than anyone else and we should learn to take disappointment with a loss. To be frank I feel sick of waiting and hoping for next time. Let the light shine on Ethiopian today, tomorrow & all the days to follow as it makes its way back to her glorious days.
On unrelated subject the famous Eritrean singer Yohannis Tikabo better know as Wedi Tikabo just released his first song since he stayed behind in the US to ask for Asylum instead of returning back to Eritrea. There always is so much depth to his lyrics, here is the entire lyrics to his new song Hadinetna which tries to digest the Eritrean current events as he sees it (sorry for any mistakes and some were inaudible).
ክሳላ ኣንታ ክሰሃላ
ክሳላ ባዕለይ ክሰሃላ
ክሳላ ነዛ ኣብ ጥቃይ ዘላ
ዘሕምቆለኒባ ናቶም ስድራ
ምድሪ ኩላ ርሒቃ ገይሻንተላ (2x)
ገይሻ ‘ላ ‘ምበር ተትህሉ ገድሊ (2x)
ታይ ደኣ ሞ ዘይትርአ ኣብ ከውሊ
ሕማቅን ጽቡቅን ክተለሊ
ገይሻ ‘ላ እምበር ገድሊ ተትህሉ (2x)
ምረኣና መሰላ ክትሕሉ
ምረኣና መሰልና ክትሕሉ
ታይ ድዩ ዝብል ዘሎ ህዝቢ ኹሉ
ከም ኢዱ ኣይረኸበን ካብ ምቃሉ
ደላዪ ፍትሒ ክሰምዕ ጽን ኢሉ
ዕድመ ክልተ ጎበዝ ተመንጢሉ
ታይ ይኸውን ኣሎ ቃሉ ኹሉ
ተሰዊሩ ኣይኮነን ተኸዊሉ
ይኸዱ ዶ የለውን ን ኣጋ ምሸት የ
ደሃይ ስኢኖም ገለ ዞም ቅልዑት የ
ይጥቀሙና ለው ዛ ኢንተርኔት የ
እንታይ መዘዙ/መርበቡ? ድኣ ታይ ስክዒት የ
ንሶም ይገፉ‘ለው - ብዘይ መለሳ የ
ዓለም ከ ባሕሪ ኾይና -
ንሕና ኸ ዓሳ ዶ ንሕና ኸ ዓሳ የ (5x)
ኢረይ ንሓድነትናዬ -
ሸጥ ማዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ኢረይ ንሓድነትናዬ -
ሸግ ማዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ኩርኩሞና ናይ ሰላም ቅኒት የ
ዕላማና ሓንቲ ሓድነት የ
ይኣኽለና ዚ ሞት ወዲ ሞት የ
ጸላኢና ጸሊም ይቀነተ የ
ኣስምዑና ጥዑም መለኸት የ
ኣይተሳእነን ኣሎ በረከት የ
ኣቅስንዋ ወላዲት ሓየት የ
ኢልና እንዲና ስጋ ስዋኣት የ
ኣይትበደል ምድሪ ስዋኣት የ::
ንበል ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓርነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ደቂ ባሕሪ ሰብ …ቆላ?
ኣይንበላዕ ብቆሊ ማሽላ?
መንገዲና ዘጋግይ የብላን
ታይዶ ይምቅር ካብ ዕረን ወለላን
ደሃይ ሰላም ጥዑም መለኸት የ
ናይ ፈጣሪ ኳሎ በረኸት የ
ክነቅስኖም ወለዲ ሓየት የ
ኢልና እንዲና ስጋ ስዋኣት የ
ኣይትበድል ምድሪ ስዋኣት የ
ንበል ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓርነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ንሕና ንሓድነትና የ ሸጥ መዓንጣና
ይኸዱ ዶ የለውን ን ኣጋ ምሸት የ
ደሃይ ስኢኖም ገለ ዞም ቅልዑት የ
ይጥቀሙና ለው ዛ ኢንተርኔት የ
እንታይ መርበቡ? ድኣ ታይ ስክዒት የ
ኹሎም ይጠፍኡ - ብዘይ መለሳ የ
ዓለም ከ ባሕሪ ኾይና -
ንሕና ኸ ዓሳ ዶ ንሕና ኸ ዓሳ የ
ንሕና ኸ ዓሳ ዶ ንሕናስ ንዓሳ
ንሕና ኸ ዓሳ ዶ ንሕና ኸ ዓሳ የ
ይነኻኸሳ ዶ - ይነኻኸሳ
(Last verse Repeats)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FLaOmHR0tHw&feature=share Cheers,
Daniel
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